“If you take responsibility for yourself you will develop a hunger to accomplish your dreams.” Les Brown
I always dreamed that someday I would travel the world, that I would enjoy the freedom of retirement by exploring and experiencing something new . . . I’m starting to see that dream come true.
I grew up thinking that life just happened and I was just a part of whatever happened around me. I had no impact, or conscious choice to make something happen the way I dreamed they could. I loved day-dreaming and imagining all sorts of great scenarios . . . life could be so glorious in my dreams! However, since life happened to me I would never ever experience it that way. Then I grew up, got married, had babies, lived life and matured and learned and matured some more . . . and over time I realized I did have control. I did have choice . . . it really was up to me to create what I want out of life.
This realization happened over a course of many years . . . and manifested in a way that was traumatizing to myself and my family . . . divorce and estrangement. But then came healing and forgiveness and relationships that are stronger than they were before because I never lost sight of what is most important to me . . . the experience I want most in life – my family. I’ve made lots of mistakes along the way, but I’ve also taken responsibility for those mistakes and live my life every day with a vision of what is important.
And I see my dreams coming true before my eyes every day . . .
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